Monthly Archives: April 2013

A-Z Challenge: P is for Potential

Posted on April 18, 2013 by Raymond Alexander Kukkee
© by Raymond Alexander Kukkee [caption id="attachment_40" align="alignleft" width="300"]Thoughts lead to Ultimate Potential Thoughts lead to Your  Ultimate Potential[/caption]   P is for Potential How's yours?  Potential, that is. everyone has a lot of potential. Surprising, isn't it? What do you do with yours?   Do you try to encourage others? Does your potential remain inactive, lazy, unexplored, untested?   Perhaps you consider yourself a dismal failure. A poor writer.  A failed scribbler dwelling in a barren attic. Perhaps you are resigned to be a follower,  a bleating sheep wandering fruitlessly, half-heartedly producing free articles for greedy word mills instead of  attempting to fend your own way amongst wolves,  write original works of merit; be a unique writer, a brave shepherd. With inaction, you might  be a poet laureate,  but more likely, remain a sweeper of streets  after parades of others more successful  visit the queen. Think about it. No matter what your status is, you can do better. The ultimate  goal is to improve,  and be better.

Developing your own Potential

Developing your potential is like any other 'self-improvement' program. Improve your own potential quickly by:
  • Evaluating your existing strengths and weaknesses realistically.  The old adage "Know thyself" comes to mind. What can you do best with what you already ARE?
  • Use your strengths appropriately.  Apply the talents you have been blessed with. Why hide wonderful talents when you could ride them to success?
  • Explore working outside of your comfort zone.  You may surprise yourself with your abilities.
  • Appraising your weaknesses with an eye to self-improvement. If you recognize weaknesses and wish to pursue goals within that field,  take appropriate steps to strengthen, fill  gaps, --learn what you need to be successful, -and with confidence, strengthen your personal resolve to achieve your goals.
  • Persist quietly with inner peace and  patience.  Keep "Patience is a virtue" in the back of your mind at all times.  Great accomplishments take time.
  • Never quit because of early failures..  Great accomplishments may take many attempts to achieve the desired goals and excellence. Practice makes perfect. No kidding.

Encouraging the Potential of Others

From a position of  success, skill and easy street, the struggles of those surrounding you are easily overlooked.  It never hurts to be kind.  You can make a huge difference and play a key role in the future success of others.  Never underestimate the power of a kind word spoken at just the right time.  Encouragement and inspiration is a positive influence in the lives of others and can spur them on to far greater accomplishments --and perhaps even fame and fortune.  You can encourage others to  their potential and learn much in the process by careful thought and progressive planning.
  • Helping others identify and  appreciate  their own strengths, skills, and possibilities. Some individuals with low self-esteem  fail to recognize good  inherent skill sets they already possess.
  • Offer sincere congratulations, assistance, and  above all,  be happy for others when they do achieve a goal. Genuine happiness encourages a positive attitude in all concerned.
  • Encourage the exploration and expansion into field of endeavor they may not have considered. For writers, as an example, encourage the exploration of other genres. Encourage self-publishing.  Critique freely without vindictiveness.
  • Let your agenda be for the concern of others; discover their potential, and in doing so, learn, develop, and discover your own.
There is much to be learned by examining  and exploring potential of your own -and others around you. That's why P is for Potential.   Is that Incoming I hear?        
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A-Z Challenge: O is for Options

Posted on April 17, 2013 by Raymond Alexander Kukkee
© by Raymond Alexander Kukkee [caption id="attachment_1285" align="aligncenter" width="771"]gt Triumph Model H c. 1914 with Wicker Sidecar Triumph Model H   circa 1914 with Wicker Sidecar  [/caption] O is for Options As human beings, we are offered options in life, with minor and major choices to be made, but do you cleverly and consistently choose the best ones?  Why are options so important? Perhaps your options become apparent best,  first thing in the morning. Let's call the boss and tell him we quit.   It's a sunny day.  Get it?  Too nice to be in a stuffy office.  Oops, Perhaps you are now no longer employed, having  exercised the option to take the rest of your life off,  awaken the mind and quit the skull-grinder of a job.  You now have the option of schmoozing all day instead, getting creative,  going back to bed, or heading off into the sunrise on the old Harley  Triumph with your trusty pooch and that  beautiful, red-hot mama in the sidecar.

Destinations are Options

Let's choose California. Destinations are always options.   Take lunch.  That's always an option too.  Camping gear.  No wonder we like camping better.  You're in control now, having chosen an option.  On this exciting day, maybe you'll be driving the sidecar eyes wide shut  in white-knuckle fear, or  catching Z's  instead, depending on the exciting ride and options the better half offers you as she pushes your Harley Triumph down the Interstate toward fame and fortune, speedometer  at the max.  The option to get famous  fast is one of the best parts of life,  isn't it? As writers we can choose to write haiku,   A to Z bits,  nursery rhymes, children's books,  commercial copy,  custom niche articles, poetry that fails to rhyme or not,- or we can exercise the option to write the Great American novel.  Canadian, that is, as identified  on  my options list. Might that be a bucket list?  We may choose to write lists  too. We have options which make life interesting --and  are life itself. No matter. We have the wind at our our backs. It seems we've chosen  A -Z  temporarily. Riding the sidecar with the eyes and mouth  shut. Avoiding bugs.  Maybe daydreaming, a basket case.  The muse riding in a speeding hand-basket to hell?   No matter. The whole day will be a Triumph. hm.... Better than any old Harley.     It's a great day regardless.  The tires on the bike are round, 'O'  is a nice round letter,  and what goes 'round' comes 'round'.    "Triumphantly".....  We announce to the world, we're up next;   options ride  with us.  That's why "O" is for Options. Is that Incoming I hear?   photo credit: A.R. Pingstone  Wikimedia Commons +
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